My New Blog , with a different issue , but written with the same Braveheart and for the same Bravehearts
Breakup Tips
BREAKUP TIPS
Had a breakup, with the one whom you thought to be “Forever Together” with. Sobbing all day and night, distraction from work and studies and above of all yours life seems to have been finished….Hey excuse me I am not yet done,here I am again with some of the good tips to make you overcome with ‘This’ whining period in your life :
- Family : people once a friend of mine asked me that “MJ (my pet name ) will anybody in this world will be able to love if you get a burn mark on your face ?” .I quickly said after a long thought with a ‘NO’ ….she pounced on me and asked me how can you forget your PARENTS , the one who will love you no matter When,Where And How you stand in public forum. So guys, the best and the easiest way to get out of this mess is only and only by spending more time with your family,start hanging with your cousins else just a handful of talks with your mom and you will see that everything will be fine cause they are the one’s who will never ask for anything before and after they’ll love you.
- Friends: According to general consensus, the major fall of a person after breakup is only because of the beautiful memories of the time spend together with the special person in one’s life and the so called “HABIT” of the same person, no matter how much you try your dependency and desire to hang out with someone ends up to ‘that’ person no matter you are hurt. So the best advice is to hang around more with close pals of yours (if you are a girl you should hang around with a close male friend and vice-versa ,if possible. Trust me , it works ).
- Keep yourself “Super-Busy” :Indulge in some “ free of cost “ activity ( why to waste your precious money just because a fool didn’t understand your worth and left you ) , this probably could be academics , painting ,partying take up any ongoing project in your school and college, cooking or anything you love to do.
- Written off : The more you see anything making you remember of Him/Her more it becomes difficult to ‘get out of it’ , so why not just delete his/her messages and contact no. from your mobile( btw if in emergency need , I guarantee you must be remembering that no. nonetheless…hehhe). And do return everything you gave as a gift or something , you must have been bored using them as of now.
- Do something for yourself: The major drawback of break-ups is that you start lacking your self –esteem and most importantly your importance which can only be achieved if you get success in something . Whether its sports, academics,extra curricular activitie or anything , you outta have to gain respect and credentials to boost yourself again. And you need to do it yourself because knowbody is gonna come and help you until and unless “ you’ll help yourself”
Try these 5 tips and you will definitely see a change , not so much but atleast to some extent, yes you will see.
Write-up by :MALINI JAIN
A Woman Who Dared
Because I Am A Woman Who ‘DARED’
Why I have to suffer,
The pain of patriarchy,
The grudge of being a natural ‘inferior’
Why because I am a woman who ‘dared’
Time change, tide change ,people change
But why some suicidal taboos can’t change,
At times in the hazy light I wonder
Is this my destiny? And so I have to surrender
Have to leave the dream I have ‘Dared’ to grow up with
Why because ….
Is sneaking beyond one’s window can be so offending,
That society turns up so hostile,
The place you have inhabited for so long,
Starts giving you the feel of a forbidden song,
Why because …
Sometimes I dream of loosing myself in a deserted land ,
Away from all life-taking rituals and trend-‘s’,
Away from all the atrocities of the frivolous minded people,
But I still want a magic-wand to tickle,
To take away all such sufferings in the world,
Maybe cause a sufferer knows the ‘actual’ pain,
Why because…..
Is dreaming such a sin,
That thieves, murderers becomes your kin,
You suddenly gain alike a worldwide attention,
And that too amidst all regular fatal tension,
Why because….
But why should I be afraid,
Why should my life be raid,
If some people are born to fight,
Then living such is my birth right,
Why because I am a Woman,
A Woman who ‘Dared’.
Written by :
MALINI JAIN
Women And Handbag
A great handbag is a true companion. It not only holds all your essentials while you’re running out and about, it also tells others just how well put together you are. A girl who pays attention to the details of her accessories – the handbag being one of the most important – is a girl who is well put together in general. She’s a girl who can triple the impact of her outfit with just the right bag extending from her hand. Through the history of fashion, a fabulous bag means “you’ve got class.”
So this article will tell you some of the best tips available after long research of mine that will help you choose the perfect bag for you according to your need and field.
it will also help you to improves the ones already in your lot. so here’s a sneak peek..
COLLEGE GOING GIRLS :
- Big handbags with maximum pockets to ensure maximum utilization as to carry money , books, sanitary napkins, other important articles etc.
- Go for floral and coloured prints to showcase vibrancy. It also adds to good flavor in mood , style and attitude.
- In your total collecting of bags , there must be a bag with a colour that will go with almost every colour dress in need of urgency.
IMPORTANT TIP : To make a simple bag look expensive , branded and style-quotient, accessorize it with different keychains, the buttons from a wear-off tops , or take a coloured pens and scribble your plain bag with good quotations or undesignated phone numbers ( but make sure they don’t belongs to anyone in person)
PARTY NEEDs :
- Do not go for a heavy and big bag instead try a small one to ensure maximum coverage of your needs points.
- Big bags are uneasy to carry and it creates a havoc especially the ones who loves to dance , there might be a heavy chance for you to get rob as well .
- Blings and chamki bags are all out of fashion. So it’s a big no-no.
- There should be a pocket (a secretive type )to keep money and other important stuff including jewellery so that you will be abe to hide them from evil-eye in case you open your bag to get something.
IMPORTANT TIP : To make a bag apt to attend a formal gathering or a party even if it is small in size , go for a big Stone- studded one as a major attraction in it.
OFFICE GOING PEOPLE :
- Plain, simple and not colourful bag is all what you need .
- Laptop space is a must.
- Your bag should ensure a strong handle or it is preferred for you to carry a bag with atleast two handle so that even if one breaks off , you can still hold it with the help of another one.
IMPORTANT TIP : To ensure your bag to be work’s needs friendly , go for the one with different compartments to keep various files and stuffs.
Women And Handbags 